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Just For The Weekend

Well it’s the 12th day of the new year, and I’m offering something special to you.


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Late Night Announcement

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From entertainment, politics, to what’s going on in our social media community, it’s all covered every Wednesday on my page!  There’s never a wrong moment to share in some laughter.  Log on!  Share the laugh, share with a friend, and share the credit each week – as I say the things you’ve been wanting to say (in a comical way)!



Give IT 2 him!!

One of the worst things a woman can do to a man, is hold out on him.  Yes I’m talking about sex.  Now of course I’m all about empowering women, but let’s take a look at one of the things; we as women do when we become mad.  Hopefully you’ll handle things differently.

So you’re mad at him and you have been for several weeks.  You decide to close your bakery/legs and not give him anything.  He can’t touch, taste or even look at it.  It’s closed down until further notice.  NEWS FLASH: you’re really not hurting him.  If he truly loves you, he may wait it out (by any many necessary), but you’re making it hard for him (no pun intended).  Nevertheless whether he loves you or not, soon or later he’s going to get tired of your games and go elsewhere.  No I’m not a supporter of cheating, but allow me to help you out.

Of course your feelings and what you’re going through is important.  Yet you have to understand that men are wired a little differently than women.  No sex doesn’t solve all of your problems, but it can serve as an icebreaker.  For instance, you can’t hold out on a man for several weeks and believe that when you’re ready to talk things out, he’s just going to open up and start talking.  I mean….you really can’t believe that.  Just like you have a need to verbally state what’s troubling you, he has a need of being physical/sexually active with you.  Please hear what I’m saying.  You can’t be so into “Women’s Right” and having your voice heard, that you just toss the man and his feelings out of the window.  That’s a double standard.  You’re smarter than that, you know how to negotiate.  Step back and see things from a different point of view.  No, you’re not letting him have his way, rather you’re giving him space to state his feelings.  Remember how I said that sex can be an icebreaker?  Well it can be for a committed couple.  The drop by night situations, it probably won’t work.  It’s just sex for him, plain & simple.

You can’t stop a man from cheating, but you can provide the environment for him to not want to cheat (if he’s thinking right).  Once you’ve taken care of him & the home, if he pulls up in someone else’s driveway, at least your hands are clean.  You are the Queen of your home, rule it well.  Just because you’re giving it to him, does not mean that you’re devaluing yourself.  Hopefully you’re getting some enjoyment out of it too. So in a closing nutshell, balance the silent treatments & the cookie.  Everything can’t be your way all of the time, and it can’t be his way all the time.  Stop the games, and come to some sort of agreement.  Plus you know you want him anyway.  Be the Queen you are, and make things work.



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Facebook News – Ladies Edition!!

Hello ladies!!  This is for you!!  Every week (for entertainment purpose) I post “FB News” on my PERSONAL Facebook page.  It’s all in fun, yet informative. Lol  So I’m sharing this with you, to brighten up your day!!  Feel free to laugh, like, and even share this post (just don’t forget to give me the credit)!!

#LadiesEdition – In FB news brought to you by Nancy L. Collins:

1) We’ve been faking it for years. #ItsNecessary#GoldenGlobeAndEmmyAwardWinning
2) If we say that we love you just the way you are – believe it.#UnlessItsASideChic….#YouCantReallyTrustThemThatMuch
3) Tell the truth on important issues!! Know when to lie to us (new hair do, weight, our attitude, etc.).   
4) We have our own way of cooking. Stop telling us how your mother does it.#EatItOrGoToYourMomsHouse
5) We know when you’re up to something.#WePayAttention#YouAintFoolinUs #AWomansIntuition
6) If we say “Forget It/Nevermind/Don’t Worry About it”…understand that you can’t be saved. #ItsASetUp
7) It’s okay for you to help around the house.
8) We’re really not that interested in CNN or social media at night.#YouMessedUpAndWeAreMad ….#SoGoToSleep
9) Just like you don’t like our makeup, we don’t like your beer cans, cigars, line up, hair cut, & friends..but we #Adjust.
10) We don’t compete with your mother or past girlfriends.
11) It is a complete turn on, when our man take charge. 
12) Next week it’s all about the fellas! I’ve done my research! Lol  




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Stop Licking Up Spilled Milk

You can’t or rather you should not, cry over spilled milk.  Why?  Because once it’s spilled there’s nothing you can do about it.  It would be unsanitary to mop up the milk, and squeeze it back into the glass.  Just like the purpose would be defeated for you, if you licked up the milk from the floor.  The best thing you can do, is wipe up the spilled milk, and go pour you a fresh glass of milk.

Too many times we spend the days of our lives, mourning over something that happened in the past.  Some people get to the point, of where they become ill, due to them mourning over a situation. Unlike the fictional movies, none of us can go back in time.  The only thing which can be done, is to move forward!!  Move forward with the newly gained knowledge and apply it to your life.  Wipe up the spilled milk before it’s too late!!  In other words, GET OVER IT and do so in a hurry!  You get over it by counting it as a loss, and a learning tool.  Just like spilled milk, if you don’t get over it, the situation will become sour.  It will stink and everyone will know it.  The spilled sour milk in your life will begin to smell, in your attitude, how you deal with people, your business, etc.  For example, if you never got over a bad relationship decision, you’ll find yourself rating every guy based on your last decision.  Which will in turn, keep you from seeing the right guy that’s in front of you.

Personally I have gotten to the point of not crying over spilled milk, a missed opportunity, & mistakes, after a certain time period.  I don’t want to miss what’s next for me.  I don’t want to wake up one day and realize that what I would’ve had, came down my street, and I totally missed!!!  Nothing is promised to repeat itself. So grab life by the horns (yes I’ve made that statement before)!!  If you miss one opportunity, create another one.  Don’t wait for it!  Create it!!  Let the goals you’re working on today, replace every glass of spilled milk in your life.  Better is right around the corner, only after you clean up that spilled milk!




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It’s you or the ATM

It’s amazing how many men, think that most women, want their money.  You’d be surprised at the commentaries I read or conversations I hear.  Now it’s true that some women are professional gold diggers. They will dig into a guys pocket, to finance their entire lifestyle, and will do it without any ounce of remorse. This post is not about them!  Of course it’s nice to have a guy in your life, who will buy a present or two for the woman he loves.  Especially when she does so much for him.  However, a real woman is not looking for a man, to empty out his pockets every single week! A real woman wants the whole man!!!  Not his credit cards, extravagant trips, and ATM pin codes.  She can get that on her own, or do without it until later.

In my opinion, when a man is only dating and not committed/engaged/married to a woman, what’s in his pocket belongs to him.  Yes I know this may not be a popular topic or statement, but it’s something to think about.  Many women have placed their lives in danger or have lost their lives, simply by “playing a man” for his money.  They knew (from the beginning) that there wasn’t any real interest in the man.  Yet because he had great financial records, drove a nice car, and rubbed elbows with some of society’s elite, they dated the man.  Once the man finds out; she has played him, he goes ballistic!

Listen…..No one wants to feel used!!  It’s one of the most crappiest feelings in the world!  To have given your all in a situation, then to have someone step on it, doesn’t feel good at all.  Sad to say, I can somewhat understand why some guys become upset.  They were thinking that the relationship was going somewhere, only to find out; that in reality they were a human ATM!  Money has its role in everything.  It’s impossible to live without it.  Nevertheless I remain by my guns, and say that it shouldn’t be, the main reason for dating someone.

Consider these tips:

  • Whatever you were doing and however you were surviving before he came along, should still be a reality while dating him.  Don’t allow him to cosign anything, that you’re not willing to relinquish if the relationship doesn’t work out.
  • IF he so chooses to pay your bill, or just give you money, let that be completely on him. Not because you have your hand out, all of the time.  Of course there’s nothing wrong with him showing his interest, by lavishing you sometimes.  Just let him do it.  Make it perfectly clear where you stand.
  • If you’re not totally interested in him, leave him alone.  Don’t play games with a man’s heart. Because in the end, you may be the one to suffer (in a way you least expected).
  • Let him go, find what you like, and keep peace in your life.


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Online Dating

Are you tired of the same ole club scene, every weekend?  You know the type of scene, I’m talking about.  Where you spend 3 hours in the beauty salon,  1 &1/2 hour in the nail salon, and 5 hours trying to come up with an outfit for the night – to stand around looking at everybody!! If this is your regular weekend,  then you may want to try Online Dating.  You have the opportunity to screen the types of guys you like, without having to smell bad breath or accept a bunch of drinks, that you really don’t want. 
Allow Your Beauty with NancyCollins285, to assist you in creating that perfect profile, to draw the right attention, from Mr. Right himself!!  Contact us today, or click on the link below and start match making your future!