Just For The Weekend

Well it’s the 12th day of the new year, and I’m offering something special to you.


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Valentine’s day is right around the corner, and it would be great to spend it with someone special.  Besides that, you deserve to date someone special.  Allow me to create the perfect introduction, for your online dating account.  Just fill out the form below (it will come directly to me), and let’s get started on your profile.  



Clorox, Sex and Dirty Bathrooms

Real Talk w/YourBeauty285

How is it possible for women in 2017, to brag about their oral sex performance, but yet their house is dirty?  They can do 365 tricks in the bedroom, but can’t make a bed up properly.  They can take a man’s soul, but can’t separate the white & colored clothes for laundry.  How is any of this possible?  How is it possible to rank sexual escapades high above, keeping the house clean?  Do you want to know how it’s possible?  Well I’ll tell you how.

It’s because their priorities are mixed up.  Among the younger generation (and some older ones) sex or rather the art of it, has been categorize as the ultimate goal.  It is seen as a proving piece to their worth.  Finally it’s because, the older women are still trying to get their groove back, instead of schooling their daughters, nieces, sisters and cousins.

Now this is not a blog post to bash the idea of enjoying sex, but it’s to offer a little advice.  Having a great sex life, is wonderful.  It’s one of the keys to having an awesome romantic relationship.  Through sex you are able to express how you feel about someone, on a physical, mental, and emotional level.   So….let’s get to the main subject of this post.  Now of course every man which has a sex drive, loves good sex.  Heck even if he doesn’t have a good one, he still loves good sex.  However, if you want more from the man besides his penis, (as a woman) you need to work on some other skills.  Giving a man the best sex should not be your only mission in life.  If he has dated for any amount of time, I’m sure he’s had more than enough rounds in the bedroom.  It is immature for you to learn how to perform certain sexual acts, yet you can’t remove the roaches out of your home.  That’s crazy!!  You have uninvited visitors running across your floor, and you’re trying to show him what you’re working with.  Are you serious?  Sweetheart, I want you to think about something.  If the man is so willing to lay up with you in your dirty house, there’s a great chance that he’s not about anything.  At all, which includes his hygiene.

Allow me to use myself as an example.  If my desk is all cluttered with paper, pens, peppermints, files, etc.  my workflow is halted.  I can’t comfortably concentrate on the task at hand.  Why?  Because everything is out of order.  Once I put everything in its proper place, then I can flow with ease.  That should be the same way with you.  You should not be able to comfortably lie with a man, and your home is unkept.  Just like I can work more easily with an organized desk, sex is better when the house is clean.  Seriously!  Your home is an extension of you.  I’m not saying that you have to be Betty Crocker, but there should be some cleanliness in your home.  Stop worrying about who you’re going to go out with next, and find out which store has some Clorox cleaner on sale.  If you don’t believe that a clean house will make for better sex and a better relationship, I dare you to try it!  Clean up your house before your man comes home, then watch what happens.  Both you and your man will feel great!  If he acts suspicious, just let him know that it was time for a change.  A real man will appreciate the change.  Perhaps he’ll finally invite his family over for dinner, or begin to take the relationship seriously.  Close your legs and open up a bottle of Clorox and start cleaning.

Was it to raw?  Oh well.  Sorry -not sorry



So They Never Call You…

This is going to be quick and to the point.  STOP BEING CONCERNED ABOUT PEOPLE, WHO ARE NOT CONCERNED ABOUT YOU!  Right there, as you read that sentence, you automatically thought of a few people, who never take any time for you.  It doesn’t matter if the person is a family member, friend, associate, co-worker or business partner.  You have grown tired of the on sided relationship, and it’s time to do something about it.

The simple solution for those types of persons, (in my opinion) is quite easy.  It is to stop calling, texting, and emailing them.  If you were a priority to them, they would call, text, or email you!  Even if you only communicate with the person, through social media.  This “rule” applies to them as well.  If they can never inbox you, like, or make a comment on your posts, but yet you’re always doing it for them – STOP.  Stop putting yourself out there for people who could care less about you.  Is it selfish?  NO!  Absolutely not.  It’s about putting yourself first.  Why should you do all the work?  You’re just as important, as they are.  Stop running after them, and let them miss you.  If and/or when they come back, don’t act surprised or pick up where you left off (and start chasing them again).  Keep doing you and if they prove to be worth your time, then allow them back in.  Otherwise continue living  your life, while being fabulous without them.

Enjoy your weekend!!




Dating Apps Gone Wrong?

Are you seemingly on every dating app out there?  Merely trying to connect with right one?  Yet you keep running into the ones whom you’re not compatible with?  Well I can help you!  Instead of spending time, wondering if someone will swipe your picture or send you a message, you need to update your profile.  A picture can say a thousands words, but the right words can make sense of it all.  It’s time to land the perfect person for you.

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Now just let that statement sink in.  In all honesty there’s not a lot to say, for the message is clear.  Yet for this blog, I will elaborate just a little.

How many times have you ran into a guy, who gave you that same line?  I can tell you from my personal experience, it’s been too many times.  Listen up ladies, if and when you cross paths with a guy, who gives you this line – run!!  Even if you’ve known him for a while, and he claims that he’s only involved with his wife for the sake of the kids, run!!  That line is as old as the United States of America.  I can’t think of anything good coming from a guy, who makes that statement.  Heck, I can’t even think of anything positive that the woman will receive.  Falling for that line is nothing but a heartbreak waiting to happen.

The guy is doing nothing but playing on the compassionate part of you, so that he will get what he wants from you.  Which in many cases, is nothing more than sex.  Yes I know it’s a shocker, but it’s true.  He’s really not that interested in you (as for a real relationship).  He’s just looking for another place to waste his seed.  Of course there’s always that one guy, who’s truly only in the marriage for the kids.  Still, it’s a heartbreak waiting to happen.  If you take the chance to get involved with him,  there’s a huge chance that your feelings will get in the way, and eventually you will want him to leave his family.  Once he makes it clear that he won’t leave his family, you won’t be happy.  If you’re really into him, let him do the marital separation on his own, without any input from you.  Back away and allow everything to be on him.

Now I understand, that there are married couples who are strictly in it; for the sake of the kids.  This particular post is not about them.  I’ll talk about that at another time.  Yet this post is about the men who knowingly lie, about their marital status just to get the affections of another woman.  Those are the types of dudes which make it hard for great guys, to have a chance.  They make it hard for the hurt woman to ever trust again.  Those types of guys ruin it for everyone.

Nevertheless ladies, you have something called intuition which will let you know when something is off. If you pay close attention, that internal alarm system when guide you in the opposite direction of heartbreak. It will save you.  It will save you from drowning in a pool of tears.  Stop settling for that line.  Your gut feelings are telling you, he’s full of it.  Run!!  It’s better to sleep alone, than to sleep with someone you can’t trust.  Plus, if you continue on with the married guy, in essence you’ll be sleeping alone anyway.  He’s going home to those innocent children, and a woman whom he’s legally married too.  When he’s not with you, he’s with her or someone else.  Is that really what you want?  Do you really believe that you deserve that?  You deserve better!  Don’t get caught up in his web of lies.  Save your best, for the guy who is not already attached.




Facebook News – Ladies Edition!!

Hello ladies!!  This is for you!!  Every week (for entertainment purpose) I post “FB News” on my PERSONAL Facebook page.  It’s all in fun, yet informative. Lol  So I’m sharing this with you, to brighten up your day!!  Feel free to laugh, like, and even share this post (just don’t forget to give me the credit)!!

#LadiesEdition – In FB news brought to you by Nancy L. Collins:

1) We’ve been faking it for years. #ItsNecessary#GoldenGlobeAndEmmyAwardWinning
2) If we say that we love you just the way you are – believe it.#UnlessItsASideChic….#YouCantReallyTrustThemThatMuch
3) Tell the truth on important issues!! Know when to lie to us (new hair do, weight, our attitude, etc.).   
4) We have our own way of cooking. Stop telling us how your mother does it.#EatItOrGoToYourMomsHouse
5) We know when you’re up to something.#WePayAttention#YouAintFoolinUs #AWomansIntuition
6) If we say “Forget It/Nevermind/Don’t Worry About it”…understand that you can’t be saved. #ItsASetUp
7) It’s okay for you to help around the house.
8) We’re really not that interested in CNN or social media at night.#YouMessedUpAndWeAreMad ….#SoGoToSleep
9) Just like you don’t like our makeup, we don’t like your beer cans, cigars, line up, hair cut, & friends..but we #Adjust.
10) We don’t compete with your mother or past girlfriends.
11) It is a complete turn on, when our man take charge. 
12) Next week it’s all about the fellas! I’ve done my research! Lol  




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Insecurities….report to the front desk!!

The other day, I posted this photo of myself featuring my new product.  The product is all about self-love. In particularly, for my African-American sisters to not be ashamed of their skin tone, rather to embrace it.  I added my selfie picture to it, to display my own self confidence.  After posting the pic, I took a second and third look at it.  Only to notice that my under-eye area was kind of dark.  Now although I believe and KNOW that I’m a beautiful person, I want to share something with you.  Many women who deal with low self-esteem (after reading this post), will see themselves in a better “light.”

I could type out an entire paragraph, explaining the cause for my dark under-eye area, or I could just ignore it.  However I want to focus on something else.  Before mentioning the under-eye area, you probably didn’t even notice it.  Which is the same case for many of you.  Most times people don’t even notice the things, that you pay attention to.  It’s not because they could careless.  Yet it’s because their focus is elsewhere.  Their attention could be towards something that they like, and you’re drawing them into something YOU’RE uncomfortable with.  As I normally do, let’s flip this conversation towards relationships.


You’re complaining about being too short, too tall, the size of your breasts, the thickness of your thighs, your smile, your forehead, etc.  The person who’s interested in you, may or may not have noticed those things.  Nevertheless, you’re bringing his attention towards it.  Listen honey, let me help you out!  A grown man won’t waste his time, if he didn’t find something attractive about you.  He would just keep it moving. Whatever you think is an area of lack, could be a plus for him!  Your thighs could be the very thing he wants, after a long day of work.  Your forehead could be the very place he wants to plant his kiss.  Stop diminishing yourself.  It’s possible that over time you may have become comfortable with negativity.

However….I dare you to start becoming comfortable with yourself.  Some things you can’t change, and if you could it would it be worth it?  Accept who you are!!  Love yourself!  Somebody somewhere is wishing for the very thing you hate about yourself.  You’re upset about the size of your breast?  There’s someone battling breast cancer, who would love to have healthy breast of ANY SIZE.  You’re upset about the size of your lips? Someone is going under the knife, to get what you naturally have.  You’re upset about your skin tone? You’re beautiful – enough said!!  Stop allowing negative thoughts to feed your self-esteem.  If he thought enough to talk to you, well evidently there is something wonderful about you!!!  Even if no one has stepped to you in a while, that’s okay.  Because you’re still awesome!  Leave your insecurities at the front office.  Walk through the halls of Beauty & Strength, with your head held high.  Knowing that you deserve to be there, because there’s not another person like you.