How many times, are you going to change; who you are? Is change really necessary? When chameleons change (their color) it’s for a purpose, such as to protect themselves. But…….why do you change?
There was a question that was posed in a social media group, which sparked my interest. Here’s the question: “Would you lose weight, in order to get the attention of a person?” Some respondents stated that they would, while others gave a resounding NO!! I will have to agree with the 2nd group of persons. The reasoning is quite simple. If you lose the weight to gain the attention of a potential mate, you’ll be forever altering your body/life for that person. Plus, the alteration won’t stop with that person, it will continue on with every person you meet. It’s perfectly okay to do it for yourself.
If the person whom you interested in, doesn’t like you in your current state that you’re in, then he/she is not for you. Because ultimately, no matter how much you change, they won’t like you. It is absolutely useless to change anything about you, for the mere satisfaction of someone else. If you do it for yourself, that’s great! Go for it! You deserve to be happy!! Yet, if you’re doing it to please someone else, you need to put a stop to it. Of course you want to put your best foot forward, when considering a potential mate. Yet altering who you are, is not the answer.
Don’t set yourself up for rejection, because you’re making all of these changes that you think will draw the person in. Be confident in who you are. Change yourself and/or your lifestyle when necessary. Not to impress someone, who probably won’t be there, in the morning after.
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