Archive | February 28, 2017

Housewives & Barbie Dolls


The other day, I was talking to a male associate, who kept going on and on; about the beauty of the Reality T.V Housewives.  I listened, nodded my head, and smiled as he raved about the outer beauty of each woman.  Now before I go any further, let me just say…..there’s nothing wrong with a man admiring a woman.  Nothing at all!!  However as I continued to listen to the guy, I began to wonder …how many women feel less than their worth, when watching those reality shows and hearing guys, go overboard about such physical attributes?  The physical description of many of the reality housewives includes:  Hair weaves/extensions, extended eyelashes, premiere makeup application, small waistline, large breasts, perfectly rounded rear ends, well manicured hands, and perfectly lined teeth.  All of those attributes could make any woman, question her own attributes.  Yet, this past weekend when Rap Artist Remy Ma put Nicki Minaj on blast, I’m sure women of all natural attributes were cheering!!!


The blast in which I’m referring to, is the dis track Shethered that was released this past weekend, by Remy Ma.  No one had to guess who the person was that Remy Ma rapped about.  For she left no names out.  It was only one person, whom the track was created for.  That one person was Nicki Minaj.  nicki

Several points were made during the track, but I want to focus on one in particular.  Implants.

In today’s society it is not uncommon to see women with breast, butt, and lip implants.  For it’s plastered all over the television and movie screens, as well as magazines. Seeing ads with women showcasing their larger than life assets, can be a bit much for natural women, who may not be as large.  Of course let me say, this is not a blog post bash – against all women with larger assets.  Not in the least bit.  Just as smaller portion sized women did not have a choice in their size, many larger portion size women did not have a choice either.  We were all given the amount we naturally have, by God himself.  So the statements in this blog post, is in reference to women who have decided to add cushion, in such areas.

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